Thanks. I can handle it OK but the wife has a hard time with it. We are in the process of getting her a Revolver and the Firestorm 38 revolver looks good. Have not seen one yet.
Take her to the range and rent/borrow whatever you can and get her to shoot them all. It's HER choice.
The "best" gun is the one SHE likes, not anyone else. It will be a compromise of:
1. Fit - It should fit in her hand like she was born with it there.
2. Reliability - It should go BANG about 99.8% of the time she pulls the trigger.
3. Accuracy - In HER hand. It's how well SHE shoots it.
4. Concealability - It should be comfortable enough to wear and easy enough to conceal so she won't leave it laying on the dresser at home.
5. Cost - She doesn't want to scrimp on her "life protector" weapon, but she probably doesn't need a $1,000 Kimber, either.
6. Enjoyment - The caliber and gun should be fun to shoot. If it isn't, she won't practice with it like she should.